Eloping isn’t just a way to “run off and get married” anymore—it’s become a deeply personal, intentional choice for couples who want an intimate celebration that’s all about them. While traditional weddings are beautiful, here are five reasons why an elopement might be the perfect fit if you’re looking for something different.
1. Unforgettable, Unique Locations
One of the most exciting aspects of an elopement is the freedom to choose a location that speaks to you. For some couples, this means an epic setting like a mountaintop or a national park. For others, it’s an intimate city location that reflects their story, like a sidewalk in downtown Chicago. Recently, I photographed an elopement in Chicago that was so personal—just four of us, wandering through the couple’s favorite spots in the city. Eloping opens up endless possibilities to create a setting that’s as unique as your love story.
2. A Focus on What Really Matters (Plus Less Stress!)
Elopements strip away the elements that can make weddings overwhelming—no big guest lists, no detailed timelines, and less of the family drama that can sometimes creep into traditional weddings. Instead, you get to focus on the two of you. Without the layers of coordination that larger events require, you’re free to actually enjoy the day. When it’s just you, your partner, and a breathtaking backdrop, the experience feels refreshingly simple.
3. Budget-Friendly Without Sacrificing the Magic
Money is often a big factor for couples choosing to elope—not necessarily to save, but to spend in ways that feel meaningful. Imagine putting the cost of a large wedding toward an incredible destination, a stunning photo session, and a memorable honeymoon. I’ve found that couples opting for elopements aren’t compromising on magic; they’re just choosing a different kind of experience, where $5,000 might buy an unforgettable wedding trip to a beautiful national park instead of a traditional venue.
4. More Creative Photography Opportunities
Elopements allow me to capture your story in a more intimate and personal way. With fewer people and distractions, I can focus on capturing the candid, beautiful moments that naturally unfold. In a smaller setting, we can spend more time on couple portraits and individual shots that bring out the best of you as a couple—no need to rush through a timeline packed with family, bridal party, and guest photos. This freedom lets us be creative and focus solely on capturing your connection.
5. The Day Is Entirely Yours
An elopement lets you take control of the day in a way that’s hard to achieve with a traditional wedding. If you’re drawn to adventure, you could plan an elopement in a national park. Just be sure to do your research—look into permits, fees, and where photos are allowed. Facebook groups and Reddit threads can be great resources for tips specific to your location. And, if you’re leaning toward a city elopement, take time to scout out where you’d like to go and consider timing. For example, a city hall elopement may require some waiting, so plan to adjust the rest of the day accordingly. Either way the way you plan your intimate celebration is up to you – and thats the best part!
Hiiiii, I’m the imaginative force behind Cooper’s Mill Photography—capturing your unique and magical moments with a touch of enchantment.
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